2) An epicene is simultaniously used to describe someone whom you are unable to tell the gender of. Such as Pat from Saturday Night Live.
'I am an epicene. I am not looking for a man OR a woman. I am looking for my soulmate, and ze could be in either package.'
2) 'whoa, ze is hot! Can you go find out what zer name is so I know which way to approach zer?